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Although we usually assume high emotionality would be an asset in a relationship because it motivates loving behavior, too much emotionality actually turns out to be a liability.

What was it about this man that attracted a woman with traits of BPD in the first place?

Just like there is a profile for the borderline personality type, there is also a profile for the kind of man that they often choose to partner with.

The type of personality that so often gets caught up in a relationship with a woman with traits of BPD is what we might call a “nice guy” type.

This is a guarantee that she will not be able to find in the average partner.

There is, however, a more ominous side to this seemingly perfect union.

This ability holds a special attraction for women with traits of BPD. She has an overriding fear of relationship betrayal.

Most people imagine that this kind of fear centers around the more obvious forms of betrayal such as infidelity or relationship abandonment.

Although the nice-guy/borderline union in theory should work, in reality it is guaranteed to fail. Either the nice-guy type will finally have a momentary lapse of selfishness, which she will experience as a major betrayal, or she will become so overwhelmed by her suspicious nature that that she will convince herself that he has betrayed her.