Start Dating for women in their 30s

Dating for women in their 30s

Men and women are different in many ways, but we’re more the same than you may think. We all have dating disappointments and horror stories.

She hasn’t mastered the life skill of introspection, so she’s blinded by her bitterness.

It doesn’t occur to her that she might be the problem even though every date and relationship seems to end the same way.

She believes her sexuality is the only way she can attract a man, or she wants this point in her life to be a series of sexual experiences. She posts a provocative picture on her online dating profile, invites him over to her house on the first date, shows too much skin (especially for a woman over 40), and is overly familiar with her affection.

The Sexpot offers herself up on the first date and is offended if her date doesn’t partake. Relationship-minded men may also say “yes” even though they may feel somewhat emasculated or turned off by her aggressiveness.

She gets stuck in affairs with men who never commit, and it’s often the nice guys who are interested in her who bear the brunt of her hurt and anger.

The Scaredy Cat he Scaredy Cat has been emotionally wounded by men in the past, and she can’t let go of it.

She mistrusts men and often blames herself for the rejection she’s felt, believing that she just wasn’t good enough.

She says things like “I need him to say he wants a relationship, and then I’ll open up,” or “Once he gets to know me, he probably won’t like me.” The Scaredy Cat may put her guy through lots of tests before she feels confident that he’s truly interested.

Her life isn’t going the way she wants and she just can’t figure out why.

With men, she might complain that they just “don’t get her,” but the truth is that she’s giving them every reason to head for the hills with her off-handed comments and negativity.

By default she clings to the same type of guy she wanted in high school or college. (See the Wow Me Woman below.) The nice, relationship-minded men get quickly discarded by the 18 year old.