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Advice on dating older women

As might someone who’s 55 and dating a 30 year old. And someone who was impossibly needy at 25 may be even moreso at 35, especially if she hasn’t had the relationships she’s wanted.

As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age. Pay no attention to the ol’ elbow-jabbing, wink-wink idea that cougars* are “more likely to put out and pay for everything.” Meh, that may be a reason a naïve man attempts to score with an older lady, but it’s hardly the reason a smart man enters a relationship with one.

"You’re so beautiful for a..." is a sentence that has never ended successfully ever..) This isn’t something to be threatened by. You know what Ben Foster didn’t do to win the heart of the lovely Robin Wright?

If you can’t be happy for a partner’s success, you shouldn’t be dating that person. "Hey, I feel like dating a [describes a type of person] now." Sure, it may lead to some fun for a while, but treating deciding who you might date like you treat deciding what to order at an off-brand fast food restaurant when you’re super high is not a great recipe for romance. He didn’t sit around thinking about how old she was.

“As a dude, I’m told that I’m supposed to date girls my own age and take care of them, pay for dinner, and so on.